where’s the birthday girl?

February 26, 2008 at 9:07 am 11 comments

abby2.jpgThis picture was taken three years ago on Abby’s second birthday. Today, she would be turning 5 if she were still here. When I looked through her photo album to pull out the picture to post here, I was bummed that the cake looks pathetic and that she’s wearing the silly bib…wish I had a better picture, but this is reality.

…precious little girl, your mommy misses you. Exactly five years ago, I called your grandparents to let them know I was in labor. I’ll always remember your start and stop labor and I’ll always remember your two short years with us.

So where’s the birthday girl? Answer: she’s in heaven.


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11 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Elizabeth  |  February 26, 2008 at 12:07 pm

    Happy Birthday, Abby!

  • 2. dooalot  |  February 26, 2008 at 1:19 pm

    I know it’s not your favorite photo, but I like it. Like you said… “this is reality.” I like that you can see the little dimple on her left cheek, and she just seems very content with her mouthful of icing or whatever she’s tasting. I like the normal every-day-ness of the photo.

  • 3. Karla Duerson  |  February 26, 2008 at 3:26 pm

    Happy Birthday, Abby!

  • 4. toddvc  |  February 27, 2008 at 2:24 am

    Daddy misses you too… Nicely written, sweetheart, thanks.

  • 5. pastorafrank  |  February 27, 2008 at 9:34 pm

    And, Papa misses you, Abby. I am so glad that Jesus lives, because so do you and so will I – forever.

  • 6. Molly  |  February 28, 2008 at 11:39 pm

    Happy Birthday, Abby. Praying for you Guinever.

  • 7. angie gottsch  |  February 29, 2008 at 8:51 am

    I think my post must have gotten lost in limbo the other day… I wanted you to know that I was thinking of you and remembering your beautiful girl – I still carry her photo around in my wallet next to my own kids. Loving you and missing you all.

  • 8. Karen  |  March 7, 2008 at 4:07 pm

    I just read this post today, but I was praying for you on the day. God bless you

  • 9. Tiffany N  |  March 11, 2008 at 10:15 am

    HI Guinever, you and your family have been on my heart lately. Happy belated birthday to Abby.

  • 10. amy  |  March 11, 2008 at 9:37 pm

    I miss her, too. Rejoicing with you that Abby is not gone forever, but that we will be with her forever- in the presence of Jesus. Continuing to pray for you. That you will know the peace of God and that you will trust Him completely, even if/when you don’t understand.

  • 11. Grampa dan  |  March 18, 2008 at 11:38 am

    Precious in the sight of the Lord.

    Oh so precious!


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